2010年7月23日星期五

Love as strong as death

Day to attend a friend's funeral. Her grave side, there is a double tomb, engraved the names of the couple, the wife Born in 1966, her husband was born in 1965. His wife has been demeaning, empty, he will be fairly young husband left to their own.

Startled a little, mind Lamentation: A lovestruck man, a sober person to wait for final.

No one thought he could eternal life, but in case of accident is not the time, very few people would think about things behind. To make an inappropriate analogy, life is like where you bought from a one-time consumer of God, such as refrigerators like. Do you know the refrigerator is a life time, but when you use the basic does not want it scrapped that day. Even if the refrigerator has old Cambodia and Vietnam day may Pipi fast breath, you will still need to constantly fill it stuffed with fresh things.

A friend of mine, in a bank safe deposit box department worked. Whenever tottering old people come to open an account, good intentions are always reminded, is not an authorized person to another set? If not ill come, you can delegate someone to help you extract out of the box. In fact this situation, not if, but often. Friends remind elderly people when he said "sick" is said: I am sorry, if one day you die, or suddenly riding a crane Seogui, that the box of treasure, he will have commissioned a person to take ah. Unfortunately, none of the older clients to understand what she meant. So, there are always more young people, we must continue to face a more complicated legal procedures.

The only die hard through the ages, who would want to estimate the remaining life of it. Thus, the final embarrassment, on the left to posterity.

Have an old aunt, out of the box each time to extract, have spent most of the day time. Friend accidentally glimpsed a few times, her little box, basically diaries and letters. Carefully read each review is completed, her two lock and key do not worry, still have to put into a bag in each stitch to sew on the seal, and then carefully locked. Come once, once removed, and then sew one. Understandably, it is her life to treasure things, perhaps Futuresoft things, never let anyone touch. One day, mother ill, his daughter came panic, to apply for authorization. It is stipulated that these procedures must be masters of the scene. Think of old people that "leaving sew it" looks like, friends could not bear to refuse, the hospital handled an exception. In bed, everyone's face in front of the old aunt, her daughter has repeatedly explained: "something Freeze ah, the body better, I'm going to deal." We confidently back again smiled: "only a temporary pay a key, for the time being The. "

Unfortunately, for the time being will become permanently so.

Bible's "Song of Solomon" wrote: "Please mark my heart if, with your arm, such as stamp; because love as strong as death, jealousy is cruel as the grave." Do not know, do not take away the secret of Aunt What? But no doubt she did not complete the final wish. If that is really unbearable to face a record of any person, If only her family, even if she can not condone the move, but at least this respect her feelings.

Every life, are built on the clock. Estimated semi-final time, really can make life even more successful.

A good friend of his father, unfortunately, suffering from terminal illness. Mom confused by nature, life, depend on the man. To listen to her, that for some time, father most often do is constantly told, where this thing is on, that thing is hidden where it is. Sometimes, fear of forgetting and brought things to find out, let mom take a look and said: "Remember, is here ah." Each time, are interrupted by her mother: "that these do?" Dad left, she mom really losing things, feel the cable tension, and even ID cards can not be found. Bitter people also amazing is that one day, in a drawer, his family found a father for mother list of items listed.

Seeger said that, remember you will die, which means understanding yourself. Friend's father, presumably through these chats, recalling his trivial life and warmth. Everything will eventually apoptosis, but only human life perish before they can so warm, so calm.

I remember about 30 years ago, in a courtyard at the foot of Laoshan Mountain, I 70-year-old grandmother, while chatting with my mother and Sanyi homely, side stitched her own shroud. Each line of each needle, all seemed so arbitrary. Sanyi hand touched the garment, and said: "The more a bit of cotton floc it, warm." Grandma smiled: "At that time, afraid be cold?"

Grandma about the last 20 years, only to spend this clothing. I always remember that evening's setting sun, I remember the yard stood needle which goes on the low table, remember that gentle grandmother calm smile.

Throughout the ages, there are many sages saints, I hope to death and immortality. My grandmother, probably classified want to "speed rot" of the type men go.

It is early morning at this time. In earlier work on the road, chatting with a colleague, but also explore the effect of "value of life." The guy told me learned, own humanity since the planet had been dead for 800 million people. Time and space in this vast and, in a sea of 800 million, an old lady at the foot of Laoshan Mountain has also loved her and remembered her. For her, it would be a "life value" now?

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